Category: Christian


  • Cheating may begin to tear your relationship apart, and abuse can end it. Cheating and abuse may intertwine, especially when your spouse/mate is trying to cover their tracks or justify their actions. When the violence gets worse, the cheating aspect somehow becomes irrelevant. I read an article from Live Science website (www.livescience.com) on “Why Women…

  • What happens to your relationship when you decide to withhold the truth, deceive your mate, or outright lie to them about your affair? Most likely, there is nothing pleasant about that situation when the dishonesty continues to a point where your mate no longer trusts the words you speak. My spouse, years ago, could not…

  • STOP!  Have you arranged a secret meeting with an old fling or a new affair to get back at your husband or boyfriend for cheating on you?  Before you book your flight, confirm hotel reservations, or pay for that rental car, think about what you are about to do.  This decision could affect you for…

  •   This Christmas was a very fortunate time for my children and my spouse. Santa was good to all of my children to get them exactly what they asked for on their list. Ipods, mp3 players, and Nintendo DSI’s were a few of the items on the list this year. The most fortunate gift given…

  • I listened to an elderly woman speak on her abuse from a 20 year marriage and watched as she broke down in tears discussing the many acts of unkindness on her spouse’s part. He had cheated on her with several women and had even fathered a few children during the course of their marriage. She…

  • If you have developed a relationship with a higher power, the only thing you can do when your spiritual advisor is also a cheat, is to lean further on your faith rather than people.

  • Marriage represents a true relationship with our Creator and spouse. Adultery represents disloyalty to our Creator. If one is not loyal to God, most likely this person will not be loyal to spouse.

  • Waiting creates patience. Patience creates a humble spirit. To be humble is to be meek and submissive to God. Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.

  • I can survive this tragedy. Philippians 4:13: I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. Thanks for allowing this to happen. Romans 8:28: And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. I’m back on the market…

  • “Catherine, I’m in love with you,” he said. “I will do anything to be with you.” Butterflies crept in her stomach because she knew she couldn’t have two men in her life. One was there purposefully by law. The other there purposefully by choice. There were kids involved. Hearts could be broken. Someone could get…