Author: silentforamoment


  • It’s the final seconds of the game.  Bases are loaded and Derek Jeter is up to bat.  You are hoping for a grand slam.  You’re on the edge of your seat, fingers crossed and screaming at the top of your lungs to bring it home. Or perhaps there’s the snap of the ball to the…

  • There’s nothing more frustrating in a marriage or relationship than when you are competing for attention from your significant other with outside forces.  Ladies, are you competing for his love and affection with that of another woman?  Perhaps his mother or his mistress seems to have a significant hold on him that you cannot break loose. …

  • Take a moment to reflect on the pain your significant other caused by cheating on you.  Ladies it hurts emotionally to a point where your physical and mental health may be at risk.  Gentleman, you never thought your ‘boo’ would do that to you, so right now you are devastated and looking for a solution…

  • Cheating may begin to tear your relationship apart, and abuse can end it. Cheating and abuse may intertwine, especially when your spouse/mate is trying to cover their tracks or justify their actions. When the violence gets worse, the cheating aspect somehow becomes irrelevant. I read an article from Live Science website (www.livescience.com) on “Why Women…

  • James 1:19 “…Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…” Have you said something in anger that you regret saying the moment it came out?  It’s okay if you have because you are not alone.  Acting in haste or anger can be a self-defense mechanism when you are offended,…

  • What happens to your relationship when you decide to withhold the truth, deceive your mate, or outright lie to them about your affair? Most likely, there is nothing pleasant about that situation when the dishonesty continues to a point where your mate no longer trusts the words you speak. My spouse, years ago, could not…

  • Have you been so busy lately that you’ve forgotten things that you put on your to-do list?  School, kids, work, house work, homework are all intertwined responsibilities that you and your companion are focused on to run the household.  Then you try to add in quality time such as NBA playoffs, internet surfing, and children’s…

  •  Ladies, are you at that point in your affair? Has your “affair” given you an ultimatum to either choose him or your spouse/boyfriend?  Gentleman has she told you to pick her or your wife or she’s gone? Loneliness, fear of rejection, or fear of being hurt may have your mind boggled, so you decide that…

  • When Women Cheat…it hurts a man and breaks a man. Earlier we discussed why women cheat (see part 1 and part 2 articles dated 11/9/2010).  Researching different accounts of cheating instances, I ran across another book that may be helpful to our male viewers entitled, .  As women, if we haven’t already cheated, we may feel…

  • A friend of mine had an affair, but broke it off with his mistress.  He felt morally obligated to work on his marriage, so he ended the affair and patiently tried to mend his wife’s broken heart.  Unfortunately for the mistress, because my friend forgave himself for his act of infidelity, he vowed to pray…