Author: silentforamoment


  • Waiting creates patience. Patience creates a humble spirit. To be humble is to be meek and submissive to God. Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.

  • How can you tell if he’s moved on mentally and physically to another relationship?  Most women can tell by the level of intimacy that is shared or not shared.  Others just have that gut-feeling that is often categorized as women’s intuition.  If you are unaware as to whether he truly cares or respects you, here…

  • Ladies there are so many self-help books that teach you what TO do if you want to work through a rough spot in your marriage.  When it comes to infidelity, communication can falter and trust can be lost forever.  Anger, resentment, bitterness, continued lust after the other woman, poor communication, lack of respect, no self…

  • Talking to the other woman isn’t really even necessary. Your questions, comments, and concerns should be directed at your spouse or mate.

  • I can survive this tragedy. Philippians 4:13: I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. Thanks for allowing this to happen. Romans 8:28: And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. I’m back on the market…

  • Take it one day at a time.  Take this as a learning experience.  Do not dwell on your pain.  Take control.  Cry if you must in a secluded area.  When you get out of that area, come out stronger than ever.  It may sound like a cliche, but continuous prayer will change your situation.   I…