Tag: trust


  • Most betrayed spouses in a post-affair marriage question if their marriage after an affair is salvageable. The decision to try to repair a post affair marriage is almost always a difficult one. The prior history of you and your spouse, along with your values and willingness on the part of the two of you to…

  • Coping with jealousy requires a good understanding of how jealousy affects modern monogamous relationships. Jealousy is a secondary emotion that derives from the negative thoughts and feelings of fear, insecurity and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that a person values, particularly that of a human connection. It’s a very familiar experience in human…

  • Thinking about crossing that threshold between right and wrong?  From a philosophical utilitarian point of view, you may think that having an affair could be for the greater good.  Perhaps you are unhappy in your marriage and you’re on bad terms with your spouse.  You’ve spiraled down into an abyss of dislike and contempt.  Both…

  • Dangers of Having an Office Spouse An “office spouse” describes your partner at work that helps you meet deadlines, eats lunch with you each day and is generally someone whom you cannot function without. But while there are benefits to maintaining a good working relationship with work colleagues, there are also some dangers you need…

  • What happens to your relationship when you decide to withhold the truth, deceive your mate, or outright lie to them about your affair? Most likely, there is nothing pleasant about that situation when the dishonesty continues to a point where your mate no longer trusts the words you speak. My spouse, years ago, could not…

  • Surviving an Affair by Drs. Willard F. Harley and Jennifer H. Chalmers is a comprehensive survival guide for anyone connected to an affair or conduct of marital infidelity.Whether you are a wayward spouse, betrayed spouse, other woman, other man, or involved in relationship counseling – Read a Chapter Now.

  • The Royal family of the United Kingdom made head lines worldwide this past week when it was unveiled that Prince William will wed his long-term sweetheart, Kate Middleton. Ending years of rumours and going through a quick separation, Prince William and Kate Middleton have been seeing one another for quit some time. The royal engagement…

  • If you have developed a relationship with a higher power, the only thing you can do when your spiritual advisor is also a cheat, is to lean further on your faith rather than people.

  • It may be quite difficult to answer that question outright.  If you’re a skeptic you would say, women cheat just as much, however they are less likely to get caught.  If you’re a woman scorned by a recent breakup, you’d say, men cheat and cannot stop cheating.  Let’s look at scenarios of men and women…

  • If you are involved romantically with a partner who is jealous, or you are the jealous one, then this article is definitely for you both.  Jealousy has been with us since the beginning of time and there is no indication that it is a fad that will diminish.   If your relationship is otherwise pretty…