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The Enemy of the State of Your Mind

By silentforamoment on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 | 1 Comment

The spring of 2009 was surreal. In the midst of a high risk pregnancy and a less-than blissful honeymoon of a marriage, I was at war. I was at war with family, friends, and enemies. I deemed my husband, his mistress, and anyone who knew about his affair as the enemy. I prayed even though […]

…an Excerpt from “Ask No Questions, Tell No Lies”

By silentforamoment on Monday, July 30th, 2012 | No Comments

Thomas and Jonni stopped when they entered the cafeteria. Jonni surveyed the room to see if she recognized anyone. Only one woman caught her attention, but she ignored her. Darnell’s ex-girlfriend was probably here just getting a prenatal checkup. Jonni sighed and turned around. “He’s not in here so I’m going to head to the […]

If You Must Cheat, Do It Right

By silentforamoment on Tuesday, July 3rd, 2012 | 2 Comments

I began this as a joke and told a friend of mine I’d prefer guys and gals be on the same page when it comes to cheating. There are too many sloppy cheaters out there, and majority of them are guys. My friend wasn’t happy at first because she said I was giving the secrets […]

Letter to the Other Woman

By silentforamoment on Wednesday, June 20th, 2012 | 2 Comments

June 20, 2012 To The Other Woman, You probably think all my venting posts are in reference to you. You may even assume I live my every waking moment to find out what YOU are doing. In fact, it is quite the opposite. My comments used to be about you years ago, but not anymore. […]

Why Men Cheat…From a Man’s Viewpoint

By silentforamoment on Tuesday, June 5th, 2012 | Comments Off

Communication is key factor in any relationship. Understand the message and in turn make sure you’re sending a clear message yourself. I’m reminded of an argument with my spouse that should have gone in a totally different direction than it did all because he misunderstood my message. From that one misinterpretation, it skyrocketed into a […]

Marriage Counseling Session

By silentforamoment on Saturday, June 2nd, 2012 | Comments Off

Him: She is a good woman, but she doesn’t forget anything I’ve done wrong. Pastor: What did you do wrong? Him: I had an affair, and now she’s not with me at all. Pastor: That explains why she hasn’t forgotten anything. A woman won’t ever forget, but it is her choice to forgive you. Her: […]

Best Friend

By silentforamoment on Monday, May 21st, 2012 | Comments Off

A lover of mine broke my heart. He used to be my best friend. I cared for him deeply. Inseparable til the end. One touch from him eased my soul. One kiss my heart skipped beats. One moment and time would freeze. In bed with another between silk sheets. I don’t want to be anything […]

Husband in Contact With (Ex-)Mistress

By infidelitybites on Monday, May 7th, 2012 | No Comments

Infidelity Question for the Week of 05/07/2012 “If my husband continues calling his [former] mistress, is it considered infidelity?” This question was asked by one of our visitors. The response, offered by an author who writes about relationships, follows. This is not necessarily the position taken by the owner(s) of this site. Answer: The simple […]

80/20 Rule

By silentforamoment on Saturday, February 25th, 2012 | Comments Off

What are your thoughts on a man or woman leaving their current relationship to begin another? You may think that it is a cowardly way to deal with real life issues that are in your present relationship. But for the most part, your mate believes the “grass is greener on the other side” if they […]

Keeping Up Appearances

By silentforamoment on Monday, January 16th, 2012 | No Comments

It is important through good and bad times in your relationship that you keep up a appearances. I’m not referring to the british comedy starring Patricia Rutledge as Hyacinth Bucket (pronounced “Bouquet”). Personally, I believe that through every trial and tribulation that we encounter, keeping up a healthy and fashionable appearance will provide a boost […]