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Reversing the Damages of Emotional Infidelity

By Tracey Browne on Thursday, December 15th, 2016 | No Comments

Hearing that your unfaithful partner is “crazy” for somebody else is devastating. I frequently am faced with something like, “I could manage her making love with somebody else. I assume I could cope with that. But, for her to offer herself emotionally as well as actually to “love” another … guy, that is tough.” What […]

Confessing Your Secret Relationship to Your Spouse

By infidelitybites on Sunday, November 2nd, 2014 | No Comments

In terms of relationship bombs, confessing to your spouse about a secret relationship is one of the biggest. Unless you …

The Enemy of the State of Your Mind

By silentforamoment on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 | 1 Comment

The spring of 2009 was surreal. In the midst of a high risk pregnancy and a less-than blissful honeymoon of a marriage, I was at war. I was at war with family, friends, and enemies. I deemed my husband, his mistress, and anyone who knew about his affair as the enemy. I prayed even though […]

Success

By silentforamoment on Monday, April 1st, 2013 | 1 Comment

…does not come easy when you’re in a toxic relationship. As a matter of fact, when it becomes unbearable and uncontrollable some times you have to let things go. The best thing to do at that point is to give the issues of a bad relationship to God. One of two things will happen: 1. […]

Love

By silentforamoment on Friday, August 31st, 2012 | 2 Comments

It’s innocent and pure. Never tainted. It’s not or the happy feeling after you have . But what if that love you have for your mate could be redirected for a better desire to please them? You may not be one of those people who enjoy public displays of affection. I know some people who […]

When is Enough, Enough

By silentforamoment on Monday, August 27th, 2012 | 2 Comments

I asked this question in a therapy session, but didn’t get the answer I wanted. I asked friends and family, but they advised “enough” had been the first red flag during the dating process. Truth is, no one can truly tell you when enough is enough. Only you know your limits and when that final […]

Dear Diary

By silentforamoment on Wednesday, July 25th, 2012 | 2 Comments

Dear Diary, I must admit that my mind wandered toward thoughts of another man. My present situation is beyond unhealthy and borderline insane. The constant fighting is a foolish problem to have, and my only escape from the nonsense is to dream about being with someone else. I felt guilty for this at first, but […]

Letter to the Other Woman

By silentforamoment on Wednesday, June 20th, 2012 | 2 Comments

June 20, 2012 To The Other Woman, You probably think all my venting posts are in reference to you. You may even assume I live my every waking moment to find out what YOU are doing. In fact, it is quite the opposite. My comments used to be about you years ago, but not anymore. […]

Why Men Cheat…From a Man’s Viewpoint

By silentforamoment on Tuesday, June 5th, 2012 | Comments Off

Communication is key factor in any relationship. Understand the message and in turn make sure you’re sending a clear message yourself. I’m reminded of an argument with my spouse that should have gone in a totally different direction than it did all because he misunderstood my message. From that one misinterpretation, it skyrocketed into a […]

Marriage Counseling Session

By silentforamoment on Saturday, June 2nd, 2012 | Comments Off

Him: She is a good woman, but she doesn’t forget anything I’ve done wrong. Pastor: What did you do wrong? Him: I had an affair, and now she’s not with me at all. Pastor: That explains why she hasn’t forgotten anything. A woman won’t ever forget, but it is her choice to forgive you. Her: […]