Your marriage is not perfect, but that is only because no one has a perfect marriage. This is one of the things you need to come to realize. Just because someone appears to have that perfect married life you have always wanted does not mean they are really perfect. Sure, actions speak for themselves, but you never see them behind their own walls. There are more than likely a lot of disagreements that go unheard to the visible ear. Saving your marriage is not that hard to do. Sure, it is going to take some time and it cannot be done in a day, but don’t you think it is well worth it?
First of all, you need to realize that no one is “the boss” in a relationship. Sure, people joke about who wears the pants in the marriage, but that should be the both of you. Everything you do should be done together. This does not mean following one another around and being under each other ever second of the waking day.
It’s hard to believe it, but one little thing can tear a marriage apart. When you discover what those troubles are, it is time for you to learn how to fix it. Take note that this step does not just involve you. It involves your spouse as well. The thing with saving married life is that it takes two. Nothing can be done in a marriage when you do it alone.
Oh, if only you could be a fly on the wall, you will see just how these relationship are not as flawless as they appear. Those individuals that are searching around for that perfection are going to be very disappointed.
When you are in a marriage, if you make a mistake, then just fix it. You should never run away from your problems as this is not going to get you anywhere. If the president of the United States and everyone in the white house just threw up their hands and ran away from their problems, where would that leave the citizens of the United States? The same goes for you, if you just threw up your hands and left your family, where would your family be?
You need to learn to respect one another for who you are. Yes, he or she has hobbies you do not exactly understand, but that is what makes them their person. Sure, they play video games and it’s not fun to you, but we are sure you do other things that are not fun to them. Learn about the other’s hobbies. Perhaps, you are not interested in the hobby, because you do not understand it. You see, saving your marriage may not be that piece of cake you had been hoping for, but it is very well possible.