Do you know the most important thing to do when you have determined for sure that your spouse is having an affair? We’ll tell you the answer.
You can’t afford to make a mistake here! Don’t rely solely on intuition and gut feelings that may lead you to incorrect conclusions and destroyed relationships that can occur when innocent parties are blamed. You may think that working late and coming home exhausted are lame excuses that can only be explained by an extramarital affair. But you would be wrong! Determine the truth beyond a reasonable doubt before storming in and shouting “Aha!”
When you have such suspicions, you may think that you should just ask your spouse, straight up, “are you cheating on me?” This my surprise you; however, without concrete evidence, this is last thing you should do. If there is some room for them to squirm out of the confrontation with a plausible explanation, they will find it. If you make your spouse aware of your suspicions BEFORE you have the evidence, they will start being much more careful, and you may never get the hard evidence.
Know your facts 100%. Have concrete proof before you make accusations. To do otherwise could do more harm than good.