Success

…does not come easy when you’re in a toxic relationship.  As a matter of fact, when it becomes unbearable and uncontrollable some times you have to let things go.  The best thing to do at that point is to give the issues of a bad relationship to God.  One of two things will happen:  1. He will make a way of escape out of that relationship 2. He will make you stronger while you’re in the midst of that relationship whether you leave or stay.

Instead of making a long story long, I’ll keep it brief.  In my situation, I had a bad marriage.  Terrible.  To the point, I myself had given up on the marriage, but hung in there hoping for a change.  To change the situation, I had to do something I had never done before.  I had to let God handle what I couldn’t handle.  I had to stop playing God and trying to fix my man.  I had to pray more and talk less.  I did my usual prayer for family, friends, and enemies.  Then I shifted and decided to pray for my spouse, and to pray in advance for the man I NEEDED him to become.  So I prayed that this cheating, weed-smoking, always-lying man would beat me down a church aisle asking how he can get saved.

As a result, my husband has put down the weed and picked up a bible.  Instead of calling other women, he’s eager to call me.  Instead of yelling at me about touching his cell phone, he hands it to me in case I want to use it.  Instead of being a  Jerk in aluminum foil, I found my Knight in shining armor.

Individual results will vary, but to answer the question as to whether prayer works or is God real, from my point of view and the angels in Heaven backing this message: YES.

As always, if no one else loves you remember God loves you and so do I.  Be silentforamoment and listenforever…


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One Response to “Success”

  1. Stephanie says:

    Staying in an abusive relationship (mentally, emotionally, or physically) is the easy thing to do. Leaving takes strength. Often people are passive-aggressive and feel they can’t make it on their own. This is what abuse does to a person – it beats you down and makes you weak. Then there are the special occasions where toughing it out, setting a good example for your man (prayer if that’s what it takes) will eventually make him see the light. I’m glad it worked out for you. 🙂

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