Archive for the Extramarital Children Category


…an Excerpt from “Ask No Questions, Tell No Lies”

Thomas and Jonni stopped when they entered the cafeteria.  Jonni surveyed the room to see if she recognized anyone.  Only one woman caught her attention, but she ignored her.  Darnell’s ex-girlfriend was probably here just getting a prenatal checkup.  Jonni sighed and turned around.  “He’s not in here so I’m going to head to the […]

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The Other Women

How do you compete with a mother-in-law, stepdaughter, ex-girlfriend whose the mother of your spouse’s child, and other women who are also interested in your mate? When it comes to his child, you are in a difficult position because that child is now your concern as well. The well-being of the child is the most […]

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Turn Future Red Flags into Peaceful White Flags…Surrender and Communicate

Thinking about proposing?  Is she the woman of your dreams?  Did he ask you to spend the rest of your life with him? Before you say I do to the man or woman of your dreams, here are some reasonable issues to address so that he or she doesn’t become your worst nightmare…  Religion and […]

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Children as a Result of an Affair

Cheating is tough to deal with as is, and there are consequences for that act of infidelity.  Those consequences can be anything from financial bankruptcy to divorce.  What happens when the result of sleeping with the other woman causes a more painful consequence?  What do you do when a child is the result of an […]

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Finding a Way Out When It Becomes Unhealthy

I listened to an elderly woman speak on her abuse from a 20 year marriage and watched as she broke down in tears discussing the many acts of unkindness on her spouse’s part. He had cheated on her with several women and had even fathered a few children during the course of their marriage. She […]

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