Archive for the Repairing Category


Thursday Food for Thought

We’ve run across situations in life that seem unbearable to the natural eye.  Looking at a particular situation from the outside, you may conclude that any man or woman in an unhealthy relationship needs to get out while they can or before it gets worse.  For some wanting a change, it may be a matter […]

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Arguing and Fighting With Your Spouse Won’t Save Your Marriage

As difficult as they may be, arguments naturally occur in every relationship. Frequently, the unresolved disagreements and the associated resentment between couples can end a relationship. Of course, you and your partner will not always agree; however, it is paramount that the two of you learn to solve disagreements and avoid arguing and fighting about […]

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Turn Future Red Flags into Peaceful White Flags…Surrender and Communicate

Thinking about proposing?  Is she the woman of your dreams?  Did he ask you to spend the rest of your life with him? Before you say I do to the man or woman of your dreams, here are some reasonable issues to address so that he or she doesn’t become your worst nightmare…  Religion and […]

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Helpful Hints to become One with your Spouse

Instructions for men: Ephesians 5:25, 28  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it… So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself… Instructions for women: Ephesians 5:22 – 24 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as […]

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To Compromise is a Promise to Come Together

Conversing with a group of online friends, an interesting topic came up regarding women pleasing their mate.  The subject was somewhat offensive to me at first, but then the comment was broken down by other men who understood.  We were discussing how a woman should please a man to keep him further intrigued so that […]

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Not Everything is a Good Thing…part 2

It’s the final seconds of the game.  Bases are loaded and Derek Jeter is up to bat.  You are hoping for a grand slam.  You’re on the edge of your seat, fingers crossed and screaming at the top of your lungs to bring it home. Or perhaps there’s the snap of the ball to the […]

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Not Everything is a Good Thing…part 1

There’s nothing more frustrating in a marriage or relationship than when you are competing for attention from your significant other with outside forces.  Ladies, are you competing for his love and affection with that of another woman?  Perhaps his mother or his mistress seems to have a significant hold on him that you cannot break loose.  […]

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Forgiving Begins Within

Take a moment to reflect on the pain your significant other caused by cheating on you.  Ladies it hurts emotionally to a point where your physical and mental health may be at risk.  Gentleman, you never thought your ‘boo’ would do that to you, so right now you are devastated and looking for a solution […]

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Develop a Game Plan from Beginning to End

Cheating may begin to tear your relationship apart, and abuse can end it. Cheating and abuse may intertwine, especially when your spouse/mate is trying to cover their tracks or justify their actions. When the violence gets worse, the cheating aspect somehow becomes irrelevant. I read an article from Live Science website (www.livescience.com) on “Why Women […]

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What Have You Done for “Us” Lately?

Have you been so busy lately that you’ve forgotten things that you put on your to-do list?  School, kids, work, house work, homework are all intertwined responsibilities that you and your companion are focused on to run the household.  Then you try to add in quality time such as NBA playoffs, internet surfing, and children’s […]

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