Archive for the Managing a Relationship Category


Grass is Greener on the Other Side?

The grass is greener on the other side. Have you ever heard that cliche? Well, it isn’t necessarily true. Believe it or not, the grass is greener where you water it. Think about it… I’ve got a neighbor whose mowed his lawn less than ten times in the four years we’ve lived in our home. […]

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Dealing With It

I don’t know about you, but I hate listening to people who have unsuccessful or those who are single provide advice on how to behave in a or how to make things better. How can I listen to you about what to do, when obviously the advice didn’t work for you? Why am I doing […]

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Ask No Questions, Tell No Lies

Jonni started walking back toward the booth where she and Toni were seated. Charles grabbed her by the waist, pulled her to the side of the bar where no one could see them, and slowly kissed the nape of her neck. Her spot. She only had three and this was the man who discovered that […]

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80/20 Rule

What are your thoughts on a man or woman leaving their current relationship to begin another? You may think that it is a cowardly way to deal with real life issues that are in your present relationship. But for the most part, your mate believes the “grass is greener on the other side” if they […]

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Respect Your Man

If you are a strong-willed, independent woman relinquishing control to someone can be very difficult. It’s not something that you WANT to do, but it is something that you NEED to do if you are married or are planning to get married. Why? Two words: divine order. Ladies, our husbands were put in a position […]

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The Good Husband

Have no fear ladies, chivalry still exists. There are still men who tell their wives to just wake up and they’ll do the rest. George Bailey’s still “lasso the moon” for their wives. Not every relationship ends in divorce. Wives do actually have a fighting chance of being number one in their spouses’s life and […]

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When a Woman’s Fed Up

“So, what time are we meeting again? I can’t wait to spend time with you,” said her lover. “Neither, can I,” she said. “Thursday is a better day for me. He’s out of town, and you can have me all to yourself.” Sheryl decided it had been long enough. She needed companionship, affection, and passion […]

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New Year’s Resolution #5…Smile

“Smile it increases your face value.” This is not just a line from Steel Magnolias,it is your new solution to a better life. Don’t just smile from your lips. Let that smile begin in your heart and work it’s way through your soul. It is very hard to smile if you’ve been lied to, cheat […]

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The Other Women

How do you compete with a mother-in-law, stepdaughter, ex-girlfriend whose the mother of your spouse’s child, and other women who are also interested in your mate? When it comes to his child, you are in a difficult position because that child is now your concern as well. The well-being of the child is the most […]

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Keep it Passionate

Before you decide to cheat on your spouse or boyfriend, and before you decide to lay down with a woman who belongs to someone else… It is not too late to spice up your current relationship. Unless the relationship is emotionally, physically, and mentally abusive…there may be hope in saving that once passionate relationship. The […]

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